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Your Journey To Becoming A Spirit Guide
Become A Spirit Guide On The Other Side

by Sylvia Browne

Once we get to The Other Side, how can we become a Spirit Guide?

Many people have heard me talk of my wonderful Spirit Guide Francine. She has been with me all of my life. I rely on her wisdom and have loved her for so many years – nearly my entire life. She has been my constant companion and friend. On The Other Side, you too will have the option to become someone’s Spirit Guide. It is an honor to be someone’s Spirit Guide while they are here for an incarnation on earth.

This relationship begins while the two of you are on The Other Side. Someone you know will decide they want to return to earth in an incarnation. They will ask you be their Spirit Guide. This means that they have great trust in you, and they know that they have a great bond with you. The Spirit Guide relationship is a close one – and many Spirit Guide relationships have actually begun centuries before the incarnation has happened.

When you become someone’s Spirit Guide, you must become an expert on them. This means going to the Hall of Records and studying their past lives to know their personalities and life circumstances. A Spirit Guide has lived at least one incarnation on earth, so they have the ability to empathize with the experience of being human. This is a great gift to this relationship.

There are times that emotions may seem very “alien” to both Angels and The Council – but not to Spirit Guides. You, as a Spirit Guide, know and understand what it is like to be human because you have experienced life on earth at least once and you know its joys and its challenges.

The Spirit Guide must learn about the person’s temperament and become just like a best friend that this person can depend on for their entire life. Spirit Guides know how people will react to situations and typically how they will feel. This helps a Spirit Guide know how best to approach their charge. They learn how to take the best tone in advising them and developing this relationship.

There are times a Spirit Guide must be the ideal combination of compassion and objectivity. They need to have understanding and empathy, but they also must watch the situation carefully. Remember that we chart out our lives before we come to earth – so our Spirit Guides expect certain life lessons to come. We came to earth to learn life lessons. Spirit Guides are there for their charges to assist them in learning their life lessons.

Being someone’s Spirit Guide is a profound and wonderful relationship. There can be no more powerful thing than helping another human being on earth.

Love always,

Sylvia Browne

P.S. There is a lot of mystery about life on The Other Side. Learn all you would ever want to know about The Other Side – and more – in my book Life on The Other Side

Sylvia Browne is without question, "America's #1 Psychic," an internationally known psychic and medium.

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By Stephanie, Saturday, April 25, 2009 11:07:49 AM
I will become my friend Cathleen's spirit guide. She is my best friend. we are BFFs! Thank you for all the information. PS. I'm your biggest fan!!
By lynn, Sunday, April 05, 2009 01:11:38 AM
By lynn, Sunday, April 05, 2009 12:58:19 AM Wednesday, January 07, 2009 06:18:28 PM HI Everyone This is what has happened to me and my family we lost a dear friend they say are friend shoot her self in the head but we do not belive this she has a young daughter who is in the 3 grade we belive the boyfriend has done this because they really never investgated my little girl was and is still good friends with her daughter are friends daughter stayed with us a couple night after they burried her mom and she was so hurt about two months latter me and my daughter was setting on my bed watchen tv and my son and my daughter little friend was in the living room my son yelled at my youngest daughter stop truning the tv i said to my son she not truning the tv she setting right here with me so my son has had the abilty to talk to love one on the other side he is 13 when i told him she was not truning the tv he stoped and call out to my mom who is his grandmother who he was very close to who has gone to the other side he said gram if it you trun the tv to 46 and the tv never moved than he call out if this is are friends mom trun the tv to 50 and it went to 50 i was out in the living room by now so my son truned the search box on and told her she could type in it and she did she told her daughter she loved her and asked her daughter if she has gone to Mc donalds and than asked her if she had pizza and the pizza was on my coffee table and she knew we were all in the living room told everyone she loved us than my son said did you go to heaven and asked her if he would be able to talk to her like he dose to his grandmother and she said yes and typed out he was cute and than he asked her to read his mind because he did not want to say what he had to out loud he asked herwhat happened and who did this she said her boyfriend and my son said to her take me to the place were it happened and my son was out about 10 min and when he camt to he said mom i don't know if you want to her this her boy friend druged her and than she could not move and he waled in the room and was laughing and shoot her in the head he said mom it was wired it was like looking throw her eyes she took me there to were it happened and she told us he did it and wanted us to keep her daughter and to call 911 she told us he was going to do life we want so much to help her because she cant rest knowen he has there daughter we feel her in are home all the time she all so had my printer go off in she printed out a heart to her daughter it said i love you if anyone out there can help us help are friend she was and is still a beauitful person and did not deserve to go this way please help us if her ex boyfriend has done this we belive he did because she felt safe to come to us he need to have justist done to him it not fear this little girl has to be with him he is not a very nice person we belive he dose drugs to help help us put him away he is a very mean person you can tell he has anger inside and if you sylvia get to read this please help us we really need your help and so dose this little girl to if he has done this what elce could he do god bless you all from a broken heart please email at sylvia it's been really hard and we can't rest knowen this could be true we need advice on this and what to do and were to go with this please help if sylvia can't help because we know she get very busy if someone out there that is a psychic and can talk to the other side please help us we would be very greatful for the help that you can give my the lord bless everyone today and always
By lupe, Tuesday, March 10, 2009 02:11:36 PM
.com Monday, December 17, 2007 Newspaper article full version In 3 more days it will have been two months since Meli's death, and her departure pains me today just as it did that very moment that i found her cold and lifeless. It is as if each second of my life someone is cutting open my heart in two and adding salt to that wound. It feels as if my soul died with her. Every time that I go into her room, which is countless times a day, I relive that horror of her leaving; I ask God where he was. Why didn't he allow me to save her? Why didn't he let me find her in time? Why didn't he choose me to take her place? I would have been ready to do that for her; I would do the same for any of my other children. As I write this, I am in her bedroom asking for answers to questions as I read over letters that she left me at different times. I tremble from pain and from anger at the futility of it all. It is so ironic, just a few months ago she and I had a long conversation about life, death, injustice, and the hypocrisy with which she was living through at that time;the pain that her boyfriend and another teen caused her. I remember that I told her: "Look, this flower; it is very pretty and so are you. Neither you nor any one else should cry over someone. You can do better than that." Her answer was: "It is not fairl everything that is happening to me. I hate going to school. I hate the schools here in Andrews. If you don't have money, if you're not the son or daughter of a rich person, if you are not of the right color, and if you are not the teacher's pet then you are nothing. You are left out. And they take away what you once had an what you worked so hard to achieve." I told her that in life nothing was fair; but, but that there was always an answer, and that things had a way of working out. I told her that death was no solution. She smiled at me and said: "Mami, there is no answer in standing up for myself against some people, I was sent to Saturday school. In cheer leading I was taken out even though I used to get up at 4:00 am to get ready to go to practice; then they replaced me with someone who used to miss countless times. But since she was seen as more favorable. Since then my world started crashing. I sure hope Crystal doesn't have to go through this" "It also isn't fair, Mami, all the times you have gone to school asking for help and they don't give it to you. The school does things as it sees fit. It is like my coach said when I lost my place at Nationals and was placed as an alternate, 'I hope it's ok because if not, you can get out. There are several that can take your place.'" "You see, Mami. I am tired of being hurt, tired of constantly coming home crying. I am tired of putting on a happy face and pretending that nothing matters after being hurt countless times. I lock myself in my room so that no one sees my pain." Many saw my daughter; she went through thousands of things, but only I saw her tears, her pain and her disenchantment. Many people contributed to her decision. Even I myself contributed to it because in the beginning when I found the first letters some months back in which she said goodbye, I did ask for help. That person that I reached to for help told me: "I guarantee that she is not going to do anything. She just wants attention." I hope that professional who told me that saw the obituary so that she can see if my daughter is now getting her attention. I wonder if all that is sufficient for that person. If she is paying, maybe she will not give such advice again. Hopefully the school is paying closer attention. Meli with her death, ironic as it is, has saved already more than one life. She has also opened a Pandora's box. Andrews is going to realize that indeed there is a problem in our schools with some of the personnel, some of the leaders, and with our youth. Like Meli said: "If we all dropped the act and the injustice; if instead we worked together, we would change not only Andrews but the entire world." I remember her smiling as she told me: "Why can't we all instead be friends, Mami?" I only hope that through her death others can identify their own feelings. If they too are suffering, hopefully they will not ignore it because the pain will remain. Choosing to ignore problems and pain will not make them go away. The problem will grow each day like a monster. So I ask that everyone help our youth. Don't allow a single young person to die in this manner. Don't let another mother die from pain as she continues living. Right now I am not sure hot to go about living; I sometimes don't want to go on. My life has been changed forever. I feel empty. I am in tears and in pain. I do not wish this on my worst enemy. Right now I should be saving for her Christmas present which was going to be the down payment on her new Avalanche. Instead, I'm saving for her tombstone. I should be seeing that her college applications be sent in on time and not putting flowers at her grave. May God hold my princess in His arms. May He give her peace and the justice that no one here wanted to give her. Melissa's mom, Lupe Flores Miss Meli Marie... 1:44 AM 10 Comments 6 Kudos 2 Kudos 1 Kudos 0 Kudos Powered by Google Translate English Albanian Arabic Bulgarian Catalan Chinese Croatian Czech Danish Dutch Estonian Filipino Finnish French Galician German Greek Hebrew Hindi Hungarian Indonesian Italian Japanese Korean Latvian Lithuanian Maltese Norwegian Polish Portuguese Romanian Russian Serbian Slovak Slovenian Spanish Swedish Thai Turkish Ukrainian Vietnamese Print Edit Remove Back to Blog List | Next Post: Do Not Go Gentle Into That Good Night Submit Sunny Dee™ This is a very heartfelt blog and I admire you for writing it. She was always very dedicated to everything and anything she loved. She had a good mind and heart. She saved my life . . . i choose to believe that it was her. I fell off my drum major stand and the way i fell off could've cracked my neck, i ended landing gently without any pain. I do believe that it was her the whole time. I miss her so much. I remember one of the days she came to English class crying because of what her boyfriend did to her . . . all i could do was hug her and just talk and joke with her. She threatened to super glue his locker shut. I laughed and said that we should do that. I'm very glad that i had the chance to be her friend and i took it. I know I at least did something right. ♥ I love you Mama Flores. xoxo aira Posted by Sunny Dee™ on Monday, December 17, 2007 - 8:22 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] Susie Verde™ Mama Flores, I love you so much. This made me cry. It's so truthful. All Meli ever did was help those around her and try to ease our pain, yet, it seems like we tried and failed to ease the pain she felt. I hope nobody ever has to go through what all of your family & all of her friends has gone through. I love you so much. Posted by Susie Verde™ on Saturday, January 12, 2008 - 6:14 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] tired of dumb ass people in my life.. my name is leeanne..and no i dont know your daughter..i stumbled onto her page by accident one day..ever since then ive been talking to luci..she is so awsome..i know how much pain your in..i myself lost a child..i lost my unborn baby..even though i didnt have the chance to hold my baby it still hurts..i would constintly hold my tummy and say i love you baby mommy and daddy cant wait to meet you..then one day its all and your family are so amazing your always in my thoughts and prayers..i wish that i could have had the chance to meet your wonderful daughter but i know that she is up there playing with my baby and i couldnt be any happier..well i just thought that id drop a line to tell you that this article is brought tears to my eyes.. 3, leeanne Posted by tired of dumb ass people in my life.. on Saturday, February 02, 2008 - 9:23 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] &* Katrina &* :] im always here for you mamma and if you ever need anything from me.. im here for you no matter what!! night threw day or time..... anything if you need to talk or anything im here !!!! i love you so much my words can not xplain how much i love and care for your family !! love katrina Posted by &* Katrina &* :] on Friday, March 07, 2008 - 9:00 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] Aaron this is the first time i read this wow so true i promise i won stop trying to make the school realise wats going on i miss her so much she changed my life for ever i love you and ur fam love aaron morgan Posted by Aaron on Thursday, March 27, 2008 - 10:45 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] Aaron this is the first time i read this wow so true i promise i won stop trying to make the school realise wats going on i miss her so much she changed my life for ever i love you and ur fam love aaron morgan Posted by Aaron on Thursday, March 27, 2008 - 10:45 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] Aaron this is the first time i read this wow so true i promise i won stop trying to make the school realise wats going on i miss her so much she changed my life for ever i love you and ur fam love aaron morgan Posted by Aaron on Thursday, March 27, 2008 - 10:45 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] Aaron this is the first time i read this wow so true i promise i won stop trying to make the school realise wats going on i miss her so much she changed my life for ever i love you and ur fam love aaron morgan Posted by Aaron on Thursday, March 27, 2008 - 10:45 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] Nataliya This made me cry. Posted by Nataliya on Friday, May 02, 2008 - 6:56 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User] howster what inner strength you must have to write this,bless you Posted by howster on Monday, December 08, 2008 - 11:07 PM [Reply to this] [Remove] [Block User]i will never stop ,i need answers
By Nicole, Tuesday, March 03, 2009 06:12:06 PM
Dear Sylvia, I know you must recieve sooo many posts on here and messages, I hope you might find the time to read mine. I'm so thankful for all your wisdom and advice and for sharing it with all of us, I really enjoy this website and learning so many new things. I have had alot of challenges throughout my life, one I am going through now, but I know my spirit guide is always there for me, thanks to you. I talk to her or him every night. I have looked for signs that he or she is there or listening but haven't noticed any signs or messages.. Besides in my dreams, which I have had interpreted. I'm not sure if it was my spirit guide sayin the messages to me in my dreams or not though. I have have a strong intuition, my mom has always thought I was psychic, I wish for some day to speak with you and learn more about my gift and my future.. Thank you for everything! Love & Light xoxo - Nicole
By lorena, Friday, February 20, 2009 06:46:51 PM
My Dearest Sylvia. When my brother was murdered at a young age i was pregnant and became severly depressed. One day i just turned on the tv and put a tv show on not knowing who or what it was. I was the very handsome Montel with a great and wise woman i never heard of;until that day. It was the incredible you. So many things i saw and heard after my brother's death i thought i was going crazy. I wasn't! You explained it all. Thank you for you helping me, in waking me up from my depression. Forever Thankful. Lorena
By hazel, Friday, February 20, 2009 10:55:15 AM
thank you sylvia ,you convey so much and have answered so much truely you are a blessing.thank you hazel
By Rosemary, Friday, February 20, 2009 09:32:26 AM
Sylvia...Love you & the work you do.I saw you a few years ago in Cleveland. I have been told that I should be doing readings, that I will write a book. I work with I-Ching, pendulum,auto writing & am claraudient. You're books, your appearances on Monteil ( miss you both) have all helped me. Blessings to you, your staff,Please keep the info coming...this world needs you...Can you have more than one spirit guide?
By Judy, Friday, February 20, 2009 08:26:38 AM
I feel sorry for my spirit guide! They must be BORED, BORED,BORED! I have been diagnosed with chronic fatigue, etc, and can barely do the things in the day that need to be done, By night time I just lay around too exhaused to do anything but watch tv or get on my computer.Anyway I was just thinking I would Hate to be my own Spirit Guide. I would much rather be one to a person who is very active and full of life!
By Kitty, Thursday, October 09, 2008 10:14:01 PM
Thanks to a book you wrote, I realized that one of the things I am is claireaudient. I talk to and hear my guides and angels all the time. I had started out using a pendulum and alphabet wheel because they sounded like my own voice and I had thougth for years it was my own thoughts. They have taught me that I dont need the wheel(although I do still use it some). I could do readings if I were more confidant, because they want to tell so much. They say to just listen to the first thing that comes into your mind after you ask something of them...that is your answer(to the person who wanted to talk to hers more). I have had other things happen and I just trust that it is a good thing and let it happen. Sure wish I could talk to you sometime...but it looks like it will never happen now, with you booked up and taking no more sessions (I had called a year or so ago to book a reading). Anyway, I wanted to say thanks for all the info. I think I have all your books and audios. Love and Light, Kitty
By Ruth, Wednesday, October 08, 2008 07:59:43 PM
Hi Sylvia, I would like more contact with my spirit guide. I think, once, when I was about to receive some bad news from a boyfriend (he found someone else) I received a hug in bed from my spirit bed and it felt very loving and special - I received the bad news that day and felt comforted. It all worked out for the best anyway! If that was my guide, it was a male, but I always felt that my guide was a female! Can you help me with this. I have enjoyed and loved all of your books.

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